Well my friend, life is all about action. Something inspires you… it tickles your brain, your imagination… you come up with some idea… you decide to implement it or let somebody else do it for you… you learn a lot while implementing it and a lot after its implementaion.. that is what we call experience. To enjoy the cool weather at the hilltop, you have to climb up the hill first!!! Its hard work, its luck… sometimes just a sheer fluke. But yeah, as you put it… very unpredictable!!

But yes… a few words for you… learn not to give a lot of importance to the bad times that you went through. If somebody tells you forget them, don’t listen to them. That is something which is impossible. Such things cannot be forgotten. What you must do is to keep that thing in mind, learn from it… let it remind you of your mistakes… let it make you cautious and aware… just keep it in the back of your mind… and keep living your life as if nothing happened… smile my man!!