Is love for real?
Is it really a sacred word with a much deeper meaning of trust, feeling, emotion and passion? Or is it just a farce? Some people use it just for the heck of it, coz their girlfriends/boyfriends said it and it’s “polite” to reciprocate.. But I’m not talking about those people in this post at all so clear your mind of that notion please.. I’m talking about people who say it and think they mean it, but don’t really know for sure.. Do we really know what love is? Oh, there have been countless songs written about how it feels to be in love, but have you ever felt all that? Isn’t love nothing but a crush? A powerfull obsession/infatuation? Hah! Love at first sight! Without knowing a guy’s name, behavior, character, personality etc, how can someone fall in love? It takes months to fall in love, and maybe even years.. And even then we’re never sure. How many relationships end with ‘I thought I was in love with him but I was too young. I don’t know what love is.’ But does anyone trully know?
I’m looking for suggesions, I feel I’m in love with Vishesh, but quite honestly, even if I wasn’t, I wouldn’t really know. Coz I don’t know if what I’m feeling can be called love. What do you think love is? Do you even believe in it? People say, if you like every li’l thing about a person, it’s love. But no1s perfect. I think it’s impossible to like everything about one person. There have to be somethings you don’t like.. Otherwise it’s said, if you can see yourself growing old with that person, you’re in love. But marriages end too. So, does love come and then go away? Or is it just an illusion? I’m confused… What is love?
July 11th, 2006 at 12:56 pm
love is not abt liking everything abt a person. it is abt accepting that person as a whole with all his/her adorable and charming manners as well as the irritating ones….there are things that u dnt like abt sme1, bt wen inspite of that u stand by that person with faith, that is smething mre than just an infatuation.
love is wen ur relation with the person becomes a part of u, smething that u live with everyday….and seems so normal. its true that sme tmes ppl dnt go along well,n then they break up, or their marriages fall apart. but then i as a person wud believe in soulmates….babes, if there is smeone made 4 u, then u’ll meet hm even if its by co-incident….
love is not abt being perfect but its abt accepting each other with the virtues and the vices…..no one can tell if ur in luv with hm, xcept for u and only u…
hope that helps….
July 21st, 2006 at 10:53 am
exactly Avantika!