got dumped !!!!! wanna impress girls !!!
just looking good or dressing up yourself in a metrosexual way will not make you get noticed by the girls, at least once in a life time a guy faces this kind of problem,but it remains unheard of because they just wont admit it. this just goes to prove the time less fact good looks alone arent enough to captivate a women`s attention
women unlike men ,dont look for the visual effect alone.a lot of other facts like emotional stability,sense of humour,how they behave in public.
all comes into play,any intelligent smart women would prefer a man who has a classy and under stated sense of style rather than a loud flashy one.
some times they hesitate to stand guys with blond highlights and a bling bling sense of style.
even if you looked like john abraham and were as rich as mittal, no woman who holds her head high would give you a second glance,if your attitude screamed “im a dude”
we are living in a global society that is constantly working to achieve an egalitarian status,so there is no chance for people with an “im-the-best-thing-that-happened-to-this-world”attitude.
women always want a man who can keep her hooked with interesting,animated conversations.i think i dont need to tell that inane conversation can be a relationship killer.
for women communication is directly proportional to how much a man cares for her,how capable he is and a measure for his concerns.
a man who cant impress her with verbal and non-verbal,cant hold her attention for too long” , sense of humour and good communication skills are the greatest turn-on in a man. to know this reality, confide in a good friend and do a reality check. all the best……………
May 11th, 2006 at 5:54 pm
Sigh…! The problem is there’s not even a single girl that I have found interesting. Either they are over smart or too dumb. Either they are full of themselves or too under-confident and shy.
I believe the secret is to act normally, like you would with your male friends. “Trying” to impress has the opposite effect.
I need to find a girl first who is willing to go out with me!!
May 11th, 2006 at 6:02 pm
looking good and dressing yourself up will definitely get you noticed because you’ll look attractive and it’s basic human nature to find attractive things or people appealing BUT only initially, for a first-time look. and yes, good looks alone cannot sustain even a short-term relationship, atleast not for me. a sense of humour is definitely an important personality trait and so is a reasonable degree of sensitivity, but i think NO ONE would like a loud or flashy person, be it a man-to-man/woman-to-woman or a woman-to-man or vice-versa interaction.
May 11th, 2006 at 8:11 pm
Be yourself.
If some one likes you he or she will like you even if you have bad looks.
I have experienced it.
Rest, wat the women want is a mystery. The one who unfolds it will get all the noble prizes.
May 11th, 2006 at 8:32 pm
And along with that, good wishes from the guys all over the world!!
May 11th, 2006 at 11:40 pm
hear hear kirat!! totally agree! (any suprises?)
May 11th, 2006 at 11:49 pm
And Kirat thinks she’s the owner of a non-existent blog http://kaleidoscopic.wordpress.com/ . I think you didn’t register properly!!
May 12th, 2006 at 9:00 pm
@ rahul ; haan rahul, it always has the opposite effect. so, better be away.
@ kirat : haan yaar, par aaj kal toh ladke flashy look apna te hai. it almost makes them look like a gay.
@kumar ; yeah man, no one can find out the mystery. but i have tried check my personal blog.
@ niharika : aap ka kya jawaab hai is post ke baare mein.
May 13th, 2006 at 3:25 pm
i agree with kirat. whole heartedly.