I want to be… [ June 15th, 2007 ] Posted in » Feelings / Emotions

Ever since we’re kids, we have a blurred and hazy picture of what we want to be, or do, when we grow up. And I’m not talking just about college, careers, etc. I’m talking about ‘we’ as people. I always thought that with my upbringing I’d be this prim and proper girl who always has to please her parents and can do no wrong. The good kid who gets good marks and stays away from the wild crowd. A doctor maybe…to ‘help people who are suffering’. Good grades, good college, good friends..selfless and sacrificing life, with my ‘perfect love’ besides me who is moulded for me and we all will just live happily ever after..

Well that turned out to be utter bullshit. Yes, perceptions do change as you grow up…your morals change, values change, outlook changes..but to such an extent? Things which you were so staunchly against, things which were against your principles, things which you resolved never to do in your lifetime, become so mundane and ordinary. I thought people who take drugs are ‘bad people’ and now some of my best friends smoke up all the time. I thought coming first in class was the be all and end all of my existence…and now…well, I would not like to comment on my scores.. Lol. I’m not questioning myself. Neither am I wondering what went wrong with me…I don’t think anything did. I guess this is just part of growing up. I was just looking into some old slam books today, and I saw what I used to be like..even 1 year ago! College sure does change people.

I wanted to be and do so many things as a kid. I wanted the world at my feet. I was to be pious, religious and a good kid. I just kept wanting, dreaming, hoping….but things have turned out so differently. At the end of the day, all I can say is, I’m so happy I am what I am right now, it’s hard to imagine. Atleast I am me and not what everyone wanted me to be, or a stupid idealistic picture I painted of myself in my head.. I love the paths I have chosen, the paths I have been forced to choose (due to lack of choice :D ), and the way ahead. It’s ok if you’re not what you always wanted to be, as a person, or as in a profession, or anything. At the end of the day…whatever makes you happy.

Oh, and by the way, Rahul change my blog please. It’s not the old one, it’s now www.ataxia.wordpress.com

Thanks. :)

Helmet : I’m not wearing that silly hat!

That’s what the ladies in India say.

I don’t get it. A rule is a rule and its meant for everyone to follow. Why are women in India, specially Chandigarh, allowed to roam freely on two-wheelers without helmets whereas guys are fined if found without helmets. It’s fine if Sardarji’s are exempted because their problem is genuine. But why Sardarnis? They have to cover their heads - they can do that with a helmet instead of a dupatta when they are on a two-wheeler. They say it would look funny when a Sardarji is riding without a helmet whereas his wife, the pillion rider, is wearing a helmet. Lousy excuse!!

Even the local leaders supported this argument. They said that it hurt the reiligious sentiments of the people. One person even went onto say that he would not like to see girls with messed-up hair when they remove their helmets. Is that guy out of his mind??

Girls have the easy way out. Even if they are caught by policemen for some violation, all they have to do is shed a tear and they are let off. The guys on the other hand are even abused.

The first time the police was actually doing was it claims to do - “We care for you”.

Isn’t this gender bias?

April 12th, 2006 | 7 Comments

‘SLIP UPS’ .. too many .. now-a-dayz .. what to do ??

hey ppl ..
must hav heard/seen thru media about the .. fashion shows being held in our country .. u must have come acrross many cases of slip ups .. while the model poses on the runway … i think its malfunctioning … such an activity is not easily accepted in our country .. and becomes a social news .. for which ppl .. get crazy .. i think this brings a lot of .. shame to the model itself .. and can be really bad to her career ahead … i think all this should be checked .. n moreover each person entering the arena should be thoroughly checked .. as these ppl wait for such an accident to capture such images in their technological devices as .. mobile phone cameras .. digi cams etc .. they post ot all over the net to earn n to get fame .. but here it goes wrong .. i dont think … such an activity shud be done … n such an accident shud be accepted .. it shudnt be spread all over the country thru media ..

April 6th, 2006 | 4 Comments

Google: TV blamed for teen $€X

Could “Desperate Housewives” and X-rated rap lyrics be pushing American teens into having sex earlier?

A new study suggests that youths who are exposed to sexually explicit media when they are 12 to 14 are more likely to have sex before they hit 16.

“Media is a powerful sex educator, but not always in the best interest of children,” said Jane Brown of the University of North Carolina, chief researcher of the study.

White teens were particularly susceptible to media messages, with those who watched or listened to explicit material more than twice as likely to have sex.

Black teens were more likely to be exposed to the racy material, but the study found they were far more influenced by attitudes of parents and friends than media.

The study, published in Pediatrics magazine, analyzed 170 popular songs, including hits by Nelly, Ja Rule, Jay-Z and Destiny’s Child. They discovered 40% of the lyrics contained sexual content.

“The Simpsons” was the most popular TV show among the teens but the shows that included the most sexual content were UPN’s “WWE Smackdown,” and MTV’s “Total Request Live.”

The researchers interviewed 1,017 black and white adolescents from middle schools in North Carolina. Each teen was evaluated at age 12 to 14 years, and once again two years later.

Despite the flood of hormone-soaked shows and songs, less than 1% of teen media content focuses on sexual health or family planning.

“What’s missing in the media are the three C’s,” Brown said. “Rarely is there a commitment, contraceptives or consequences.”

Heres my question: wat do u think ?? do all these TV programmes try to gic $€X education or do they increase LUST in such a peer group .. As these programmes have become very popular in India also ..

April 4th, 2006 | 5 Comments

low cost airlines … a new business avenue ..

fly high .. fly cheap .. will be the next thing coming up in our minds .. as many of the industrial groups are coming up in this way of launching low cost airlines these days ..
less advertisement .. no frills .. no food aboard .. are the factors .. making these airlines fly at a low cost ..
it was just the first step taken by air deccan .. to launch such an airline .. followed by many others .. in a time span of one year ..
n one thing in common .. they all are a part of the various multi crore business groups like .. WADIA .. UB .. SPICE .. etc ..
with fares less than 50 percent of the previous .. i think this business is much better for common people .. who really need to reach a place in minimum time .. in today’s world .. then the company itself .. ?? .. last but not the least .. its also the area .. in which the govt doesnt wanna lag behind .. yess .. govt too .. has launched its AIR INDIA EXPRESS .. after all they also need to earn .. the profits .. ;)

here .. have a look at the recently launched:

GO AIR - Wadia Group (bombay dyeing, brittania etc .. )
AIR DECCAN - G.R. Gopinath
KingFisher Airlines - UB Group (shaw wallace, kingfisher, etc .. )
SpiceJet - Spice Group (Spice Telecom)
AIR INDIA EXPRESS - “Govt. of India” ;)
RYAN AIR
INDUS AIR ..

n so .. on
keep waiting .. many more are on thier way .. :)

April 2nd, 2006 | 9 Comments

Google Romance: Contextual mating!

Now here’s something special from Google. While love is in the air, Google aims to strike big with contexual dating services. Google helps millions of users find the information that they seek on the web and now Google is trying to play cupid to a wide range of web audience.
Here’s the link, go play!

April 2nd, 2006 | 7 Comments

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